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THE SYMPATHIZING WOMAN.

If we were called upon to describe Mrs. Dobbs, we should, without hesitation, call her a sympathizing woman. Nobody was troubles with any malady she hadn’t suffered.

“She knew all about it by experience, and could sympathize with them form the bottom of her heart.”

Bob Turner was a wag, and when one day he saw Mrs. Dobbs coming along the road towards his house, he knew that, in the absence of his wife, he should be called upon to entertain her; so he resolved to play a little on the good woman’s abundant store of sympathy. Hastily procuring a large blanket, he wrapped himself up in it, and threw himself on a sofa near by.

“Why, goodness gracious! Mr. Turner, are you sick?” asked Mrs. Dobbs, as she saw his position.
“Oh, dreadfully,” groaned the imaginary invalid.
“What’s the matter?”
“Oh, a great many things. In the first place, I’ve got the congestion of the brain*.”
“That’s dreadful,” sighed Mrs. Dobbs; “I come pretty near dying of it ten years ago come next spring. What else?”
Dropsy,” again groaned Bob.
“There I can sympathize with you; I was trouble with it, but finally got over it.”
Neuralgia, continued Bob.
“Nobody can tell, Mr Turner, what I’ve suffered from neuralgia. It’s an awful complaint.”
“Then, again, I am much distressed by inflammation of the bowels.”
“If you’ve got that, I pity you,” commented Mrs. Dobbs; “for three years steady I was afflicted with it, and I don’t think I am fully recovered yet.”
“Rheumatism,” added Bob.
“Yes, that’s pretty likely to go along with neuralgia. It did with me.”
“Toothache,” suggested Bob.
“There have been times, Mr. Turner, when I thought I should have gone distracted with the toothache,” said the sympathizing woman.
“Then,” said Bob, who having temporarily run out of medical terms, resorted to a scientific name, “I am very much afraid that I’ve got the tethysaures.”
“I shouldn’t be at all surprised,” said the ever-ready Mrs. Dobbs; “I had it when I was young.”

Though it was with great difficulty that he could resist laughing, but Bob continued, -
“I am suffering a good deal from a sprained ankle.”
“Then you can sympathize with me, Mr. Turner. I sprained mine when I was coming along.”
“But that isn’t the worst of it.”
“What is it?” asked Mrs. Dobbs, with curiosity.
“I wouldn’t tell any one but you, Mrs. Dobbs, “but the fact it” – here Bob groaned – “I am afraid, and my doctor agrees with me, that my reason is affected – that, in short, I’m a little crazy.”

Bob took breath, and wondered what Mrs. Dobbs would say to that.
“Oh, Mr. Turner! is it possible?” exclaimed the lady. “It’s horrible, I know it is. I frequently have spells of being out of my head myself.”

Bob could not stand it any longer; he burst into a roar of laughter, which Mrs. Dobbs taking for a precursor of violent paroxysm of insanity, she was led to take a hurried leave.


*Congestion of the Brain - a 19th Century term used to describe many conditions including hydrocephalus, stroke, cerebral hemorrhage, meningitis, and sunstroke.

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